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Quest of the Day

All who wander are not lost . . .

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As you know, one of my quests on vacation was to savor a latte overlooking a scenic vista each day.

Others had their own quests.

Walter's quest was "The Church of the Day."

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(One) of Peter's quests was the opera.

Unfortunately, The Opera in Vienna was closed while we were visiting. On our last evening before returning home, however, Peter and Virginia tried to share one last glimpse of authentic Austria and the opera and took us into the heart of Vienna for a festival. Every weekend during the summer, taped opera performances are shown outdoors on a huge screen in the center of downtown Vienna. Uhhhhh......except there was NO opera THAT night --- much to Peter's chagrin. We watched Grace Jones (of James Bond Goldfinger fame) perform instead. "Interesting" . . . . it was like watching Lady Gaga, Madonna and Michael Jackson all at the same time.

The closest we came to the opera was when we stumbled across the opera that is staged on The Lake of Constance on our drive from the Alps to Bavaria.

Using the GPS and my mastery :) of the German language, I chose a restaurant by the name and hoped it would at least have a view of the lake.

Perfekt!

Just outside our restaurant was the stage for Aida.

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(I don't know how Aida was, but I LOVE the feet!!!)

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Alexandra's quest was to be a princess --- and to learn how to Hula-Hoop!

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AND to spend every possible minute with "The Big Girls!"

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Steve's quest was to find the perfect potato dumpling --- or at least one that would rival the ones he grew up on.
(I think he ate dumplings almost every day.)

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Sarah and Rachel's quest was for ice cream.

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They ate a lot of scrumptious ice cream but found the most exotic ice cream parlor in a small village at the base of "Cinderella's Castle." (Neuschwanstein Castle in Bavaria) Each serving was a masterpiece that was as pleasing to the eye as it was to the palate.

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This is the Spaghetti and Meatballs. (You should have seen the Filet Mignon!)

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In the end, we all really had the same quest: to seek, to share and to love.

(In the end, I also have to admit that the "Cup of the Day" from Home Sweet Home tastes pretty good too.)

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Pretzels

The Germans are serious about pretzels:

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Way too serious!

The drive from the Alps to Bavaria. YIKES!!!

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Jungfraujoch, "The Top of Europe" laughed at me this morning from our hotel room in Interlaken . . . . . It has been in the clouds for the past three days just like it was when we were in Switzerland 10 years ago.

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I will return for the view from above some day.

We hiked with our heads in the clouds today. I enjoyed a break with coffee at 6000 feet and with milk fresh from the cow.

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There's a glimpse of the snow-capped Alps through the clouds.

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Need more cowbell?!?

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I'm not complaining, but I have not had nearly as many lattes in quaint sidewalk cafes or panoramic vistas as I had hoped while on vacation. The rest of the family just doesn't have the same priority --- so the majority wins. Today we ascended into the Alps about 2000 feet and stopped for lunch after a 2-3 mile hike. We hoped to ascend even higher to Jungfraujoch, the "Top of Europe," where a warm latte sounded heavenly in the 40 degree temps, but all we would have seen was clouds. We enjoyed what we had instead.

At lunch, Steve ordered the Mountain Twister, a non-alcoholic beer that seemed to have a hint of champagne. It was as light and refreshing as the Alps.


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. . . and the Church of the Day too!

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A Mother's Sentiment

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There is something very special about the first Mother's Day that you actually hold your own child in your arms.

Mine was eighteen years ago and I am feeling pretty sentimental......

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I am also feeling very blessed to have two "extra" children to call my own even though I did not give them birth.
Thanks to Eric and Tracy, I have been able to enjoy the gifts of children for almost 30 years ~ and now a grandchild too!

Senioritis

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The Mighty Quinns

Loooooong day at work on Friday then a busy day catching up on things around the house on Saturday followed by a birthday party for my nephew and a drive to Indy to spend the night. Sarah was kind enough to drive so I could prep for a meeting I have on Monday and prepare for a test I have on Wednesday. We watched Rachel play in a volleyball tournament this morning (awesome) and then enjoyed brunch with Eric and Angela. Finally home and realized it is an hour later than I thought due to DST!

Whenever I think my life is hectic, I read Keely Quinn's journal on CaringBridge to help put my life back into perspective. Keely is the 3 year-old daughter of one of my classmates from medical school and residency. She has 6 (yes SIX) older brothers, ages 5 to 15, and is proving to be tougher than all of them combined!!!

The girls and I actually got to meet Keely for the first time today. She is at Riley's Children's Hospital in Indy fighting leukemia.

Unfortunately, Keely and her family know Riley all too well. Keely was born in Indy after a complicated pregnancy and spent many months at Riley. She was born with Down Syndrome and had many complications including congestive heart failure. She eventually required open heart surgery to correct the congenital problem that caused the heart failure.

She has continued to have many ups and downs, but is still one of the most charismatic little ladies I have ever met. Sarah and Rachel were equally amazed at her power and personality that wraps EVERYONE around her little finger.

Meanwhile, Dad and the 6 boys are trying to maintain some sense of normalcy back home in South Bend while Mom is in Indy with Keely 24/7. I have a hard time imagining a single hour in either of their lives even when things are "normal" and everyone is healthy and at home!

Even though most of you don't know Keely and her family, please keep them in your prayers. Despite all their hardships in the past 3 years, they have given endless amounts love and laughter to everyone they meet - even if it is just through Keely's journal. (I encourage you read even just a few pages --- be prepared to laugh and cry.)

After a long day at work on Friday, I admit that I was feeling a bit like Eeyore, but I am back into perspective: the glass is half full, (not half empty). I was even lucky enough to catch Dad visiting today so we got to catch up on life after residency. His is much different than mine, but still . . . . . . Life is Good.


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The Spa

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Best $5 I have spent in a long time!!! (Not sure Shadow agrees.)

Birthday Twinkle

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The cinnamon roll birthday breakfast and the poppyseed chicken birthday dinner are about as constant as the twinkle in Rachel's eyes.

Sarah made the day even more special by getting up early to have breakfast with her sister and then prepared a beautiful birthday table for dinner. She gave Rae a special "Sister Twins" birthday card and a "sisters" necklace followed by a manicure and pedicure.

When the girls were small, they wanted to dress alike and ran around singing "We're the sister twins!" Now they are appalled at each other if the other one wears something even remotely similar and they yell at each other if one of them wears the other's clothes without asking or doesn't return an item to it's proper place. But when there is some important event, they each consult the other about what to wear and how to do their hair.

Sarah has already admitted that when she goes to college next year, she will be lost without Rachel . I'm thankful I had a brother, but even more thankful that I was blessed with girls and the chance to experience sisterhood vicariously.

Daze of our lives

May was busy with track, Junior-Senior Banquet, Eric and Angela's wedding, doctor's appointments for Sarah's knee, club volleyball, ski team practice and all the end-of-the-year music, sports and academic awards programs for school. Somehow we managed to squeeze in the finale for American Idol, but May was so hectic that we barely had time to celebrate Sarah's birthday and Mother's Day.

Both girls are honor students and Rachel was named MVA (Most Valuable Athlete) in track for JH girls and earned special honors in English and Pre-Algebra at LCA. She was also named Student of the Week by the Optimist Club for being a friend and leader and for being dependable, conscientous, responsible, helpful and cheerful.

Sarah received special honors in Advanced Biology at LCA and in June, "had fun" taking the ACT and SAT exams in prep for college. (Gulp!) She and her two KYLA (Kosciusko Youth Leadership Academy) teammates were also given the Heart Of Gold Award by the Kosciusko County Community Foundation (KCCF) for their KYLA project 2nd Chance which established an endowment to provide free GED testing.

June also meant the kick-off of the Lake City Skiers' 2009 show season, the construction of the backdrop and props for the Lake City Skiers (great job, Steve), the first LCS tournament for '09, re-celebrating New Year's Eve, bidding German exchange student Jakob farewell (We will see you in Germany next year, Jakob!) and Big Stuf church camp in Panama City, Florida for Sarah.

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The Happy New Year plunge..........in June

All the while, Steve was nursing a partially torn Achilles tendon and I was preparing a farewell for my nurse of almost 18 years. (See POOF)

It's amazing how fast life can go and yet even more amazing how fast life can come to a screeching halt. And indeed it did.

So, here I SIT spending quality time with my hubby. We've been together almost 24/7 for the past several days in the most expensive suite in town. Not to "brag," but I am sure our room is more than "4 figures" a night and it's not even waterfront --- but at least we don't have to pay extra for room service.

So what could possibly pull me away from the lake in the summer and make me SIT????? No, hell did not freeze over, but we did find one helluva big snowball in July --- the pneumonia in Steve's chest.

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(Even a first year medical student couldn't miss this!!!)

We'll be here at least another day or two --- you know, nothing is ever simple with Steve. In the meantime, we will enjoy this time of rest with respect.

Burned

Just got back from vacation . . .

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While some of us get burned while on vacation (YES, that is Tracy's handprint on Nate's back), I get burned when I return home. (No time to blog, Bubby, but I will try to catch up this weekend!)

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Amazing Grace

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.....to give without expecting anything in return.

.....to give even though the receiver has done nothing to earn or deserve what is given.

.....to give life even when precious life has been taken away.

Our week in Guatemala with Hands of Hope was a lesson in grace.......amazing grace.

I don't think most Americans understand grace. Most Americans either expect to work for everything and are skeptical of anything that is "free" or they have a sense of entitlement and obligatory fairness. Neither paradigm is compatible with the concept and gift of grace. Life is not fair. The people of Guatemala understand grace --- perhaps because they also have an intimate understanding of death.

Aron's father shared a dream he had several days before Aron's death: He was standing in a river with Aron and the pastor of their church. The water was crystal clear which meant that they would soon receive a great blessing. Now, in the wake of his son's death, Aron's father believes that the blessing was our mission team.

Even in the darkness and despair following his death, Aron's mother also poignantly and repeatedly praised Hands of Hope for the care we gave to her son. She gave heart-felt thanks and praise to us despite her own personal pain and grief.

Admittedly, grace can be difficult to understand . . . . but also to accept. We certainly did not feel worthy of the gift we were given and feel we received much more than we gave.

Although we may never understand everything that happened during our time in Guatemala, God's grace gives us comfort, hope and inspiration to exemplify grace in our daily walk --- wherever we are and in whatever we do.

Now what?


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Homeward bound. Still a lot to process. More later.

Amor del Nino

Today we visited Amor del Nino founded by Steve and Shyrel Osborn. This is an orphanage primarily for special needs children. Many were abandoned and left to die but for the mercy of Amor del Nino. You can only begin to imagine the tragic story that nearly each child has to tell, but as the photos attest, the lives of these children are now filled with comfort, love and acceptance plus stories of astounding growth and progress.

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The next stop on our "tour" was the city dump.

The dump in Guatemala City sits below a cemetery: what a paradise for vultures.

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Countless truckloads of trash are dumped here every day and countless numbers of people scavenge through the trash hoping to find something they can salvage and sell for a few quetzels. Many children have been killed rummaging through the trash so laws were finally enforced that prohibit children from entering the dump.

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Life and death take on strangely similar appearances in Guatemala.

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Sally, Christian and I also made the trek to Chichicastenango......to visit Christina.

Christina, now in her 20s, has spina bifida. She was "adopted" by Hands of Hope and a local family in Warsaw about ten years ago and brought to the US to have surgery so that she could walk.

Once we made the drive down the steep, narrow, bumpy, serpentine road into the valley where Christina lives, we had to get out and walk the rest of the way.

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It was about half a mile to her house on a well-worn path, but . . .

Did we turn at the right corn stalk???

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Fortunately, two of Christina's sisters came to meet us and lead us the rest of the way. (Even in remote areas of Third World countries there are cell phones.)

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Christina is the oldest of eight children. Her father left eight months ago to find work in the US and has not been heard from since. Her 16-year old brother is now the man of the house. He and his mother are working hard to try to support the family. We found Christina working on some embroidery which I assume she sells. She is able to walk with crutches and has remained fairly healthy, but rarely leaves the house because of their remote location.

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For Christina, it is a very small world.

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28

Aron died today. I do not completely understand God's will right now, but I have faith that good will continue to grow out of this experience.

I sunk the sheriff

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. . . or at least there have been times when I wish I could have sunk him for giving out frivolous tickets ("The color of your boat registration numbers don't have enough contrast . . ." "You can't fish off the end of your pier without a license . . ." "You must display your temporary boat registration . . .") instead of ticketing reckless wave runner drivers and others that endanger the safety of our lakes.

Prelude to the Metro

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Stay tuned . . . there's a lot more to come

Signs of the seasons

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Anyone you know???

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Obviously, it is not me or you would get daily blog updates!!!

Another world

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BIG WORLD (little me)

About a year ago, Denny Wilson, the senior pastor at WCC challenged our congregation: "Step out of your comfort zone. Stop focusing on yourself." He challenged us to look at our world and our lives from a different perspective and to help refine our focus on living a purpose-driven life --- a life with signficance.

Steve and I just returned from our first mission trip. The experience was beyond what words or pictures can describe, but it had an eternal impression on our hearts and our faith. Here is a glimpse of our week in Honduras. We extend a sincere invitation to share our experience with you personally.

First of all, since the trip involved Jungbauers, you know that there HAD to be drama. This time the drama began before we even left. One week prior to leaving, we discovered that you cannot travel to Honduras unless you have at least six months before your passport expires. I will spare all the sordid details, but after many phone calls and FED-EXs we received our passports just hours prior to departure.

We flew into San Pedro Sula, a city of 800,000 people founded in 1536. It is about ninety minutes from the northern coast of Honduras and in the lowlands surrounded by mountains and banana plantations. Temperatures never dip much below 80 degrees.

According to the guide book, it is the most dynamic business city in Honduras and and much maligned by travelers as a place to get out of as quickly as possible. It has the highest crime rate in Honduras, so armed guards seem as common as stop signs.

Forty percent of Honduras' GDP is generated in San Pedro Sula primarily from banana plantations and maquilas. Maquilas are factories that assemble clothes from fabric imported tax-free and then re-exported tax-free. Forty percent are owned by the US and indeed, many of Steve's NIKE wear was "Made in Honduras."

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Local vendors and mobile vendors


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Honduras is full of contrast. Modern yet primitive. New yet old. Rich but poor. Hopeful but hopeless.

Icons like Coca Cola, Pizza Hut, Wendy's, and Office Depot seem to dot every corner yet are frequently adjacent to abandoned, dilapidated shacks. Peddlers stand on street corners selling fruit or water. A Catholic church stands in the center of every town. Just a few blocks from our hotel was this Warsaw icon.

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Obviously, San Pedro is not a tourist town. You won't find menus in anything other than espanol and even a NASCAR driver would be challenged to survive the roads, sidewalks and parking lots. (Headlights and tail lights are optional, drivers create their own traffic lanes and one-way streets are just a suggestion.)

We were very glad to have interpreters, taxi drivers . . . and Guardian Angels!


Trinchera, is a village about 30 minutes outside of San Pedro Sula. This is where we spent our week working. Most of us would call it a ghetto. You cannot tell where it starts or ends; it seems to go on forever, but just runs into another village that looks the same with a different name.

The houses are rarely more than a few feet apart or more than a few crowded small rooms. Most have dirt floors and are constructed from scraps of wood, metal, fabric and plastic. There are open sewers that the children cheerfully run through like mud puddles. Many cook over fire pits. Laundry is done by hand and strung anywhere to dry. Children take care of the children. Trash and chickens are everywhere and despite the primitive living conditons, most houses have a TV --- and a barbed-wire security system. The "affluent" have houses of cement (with broken glass and razor wire security systems) and maybe even have a car. Large public buses from "outside" squeeze through the moguled streets of the village multiple times daily, but for most, Trinchera is the only world they will ever know.

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The streets are studded with small shops in the front part of the houses. Some sell handfuls of groceries and many sell Coca Cola or Pepsi. Some serve food or have a small selection of clothing or other small household items. In one form or another, you'll find all the modern conveniences of home like a cell phone vendor, electronics store, barber shop, bakery, billiards hall, gym and of course, an internet cafe. There is even a meeting place for AA and a strikingly new medical clinic, though it's usually closed due to lack of staffing.

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You can even get ice cream and cotton candy.

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Our first interaction with the people of Trinchera was in small groups walking through the streets and stopping at houses to share staples of beans, rice and prayer. No matter how meager their living status, we were always warmly welcomed inside of their homes.


Sunday night we attended one of their church services. We arrived after the service began and were escorted through the crowded congregation to reserved seats in the very front of the church. Our comfort zones shattered and we were acutley aware that we had no idea what we had gotten ourselves into. As we looked out at the congregation, however, their overwhelming love, energy and passion for worship --- their love of God --- quickly calmed our insecurities. We later discovered that they expected us to arrive late so to show us special attention and honor.

The little girl in green, Alejandra, immediately stole my heart that night. I sheepishly snapped this photo trying to capture the passion of the moment. Note how their focus is not on us or anyone other than our Almightly God.


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This is the Pastor and his "Praise Team" standing on the cement-block stage in the open-air dirt-floored church. Note how crisp, clean and white everyone was despite the primitive living and sanitary conditions.

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The offering baskets overflowed that night --- a fore-taste of things to come.


Monday morning we returned to Trinchera. Most of the men were on the construction team and the women, teens and a few brave men were on the children's ministry team which held a Bible School for the kids. We were told to expect about 50 kids for the first session and perhaps another 50 for the second session.

Here is the church in daylight . . . . with at least 50 kids already waiting for us the first morning.


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Before long, the church was busting at its seams with at least 150 kids on the first morning.

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When we returned after lunch, the church was completely empty. Our hearts sank.

A few kids started to trickle in, but then Wilmer, one of our locals, drove around town in a pickup truck playing his trumpet like the pied piper. Within minutes, we were overflowing with kids from all directions.

The following morning when we drove in, not only was the church FULL of kids waiting for us, but they loudly clapped and cheered for us as soon as they saw our van. We could barely even get to the stage because they had put their chairs right up against it.

They could never seem to get close enough to us. We felt magnetic.

During our time with the kids, we taught them songs, watched a movie about the life of Christ from a child's perspective, colored pictures, made beaded cross necklaces, played with balloons and bubbles, made a prayer tree and shared the love of God.


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The kids' favorite song was Yo Tenga Un Amigo, (I Have a Friend Who Loves Me) which they also learned in English. They loved to sing and when they did, it gave all of us chills despite the blistering heat. (You HAVE to see and hear the video.)


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While we were busy with the kids, Steve worked with the construction team to "remodel" a house and put a new roof on the school. He redefined dirty and smelly. In keeping with Jungbauer "traditions," he was also the only one that got injured. (He cut his finger on a piece of sheet metal so I had to glue his finger back together.)

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He also spent alot of time playing ball with the kids hanging around the construction sites.

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The kids loved hanging out with (and on) Steve --- especially Darcy. (Talk to Steve for details.)

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At the end of the week, we were all honored with a special ceremony and meal prepared by patrons of the school.


This church on the top of the hill was irresistable, so one afternoon, the ladies and I went on an adventure hike through Trinchera (and beyond).

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Along the way, we ran into a helpful teen on a bicycle that redirected us (in a safer direction) and then a little further down the road we ran into another kind soul that then become our tour guide to the top.


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She even recruited her family and more umbrellas for the journey.


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Atop the summit, we found these boys flying their home-made kites.


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And on the way back down . . .

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. . . this is what we found laying in the middle of the steep downslope.

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Mingling in the streets on the way home


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On Thursday, we took the day off and drove out to the beach. It rained. (My typical day off.)

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On our final night in Trinchera, we held in a "Crusade" with multiple local churches. At least 2000 people attended and the locals performed in a special dance ceremony while "our kids" danced with us.

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All the gringos got up on stage and sang the kids' favorite song "Yo Tenga." The crowd begged for an encore. Some of us gave personal testimonies and all of us collected countless hugs and kisses.

More special faces and memories:

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Our driver Javier with his sons, Javier and Gabriel.

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Steve Petty and his fiance Reina


Steve is the pulse behind our mission in Trinchera. Reina grew up along the tracks in Trinchera.

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Estella and her family outside their family store

Estella was a meek teen that barely spoke a word, but graciously helped us every day during Bible school. We tried to buy something from her store, but her mother insisted on giving us something instead.


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A proud mother . . . full of hope, holding her six-week old infant . . .


I'm still trying to process our experience. It seems that what we received far exceeded what we gave. I don't know what kind of lasting impact we had on their lives, but I know they made a permanent impact on our lives. We were overwhelmed by the out-pouring of love and generosity: no matter how little they had, they joyfully gave.


But there is another world in Trinchera that is easily overlooked. It is not the world we want to remember, but the world that we should remember.


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They did not choose where they were born, but we can choose how to use the gifts that God has given each of us. No act of kindness is too small. To love one another is to love God --- and if we refuse to extend love and grace to one another, we refuse to love God.

Love is more than a feeling. Love is a verb.

We must all live more simply so that others may simply live . . .


My Handyman

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Why is it that every time you have a major gathering at your house, an appliance decides to croak?

1 in 3 Americans are affected!!!

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I was in the middle of doing my first physical of the day, when I looked up and saw this new "medical journal" in the wall pocket of my exam room.

Inquiring minds want to know, so I immediately opened it up and started looking for the answer. Would you believe that some parasite tore the vital pages out?!?!?

Well, I guess I'm gonna have to spend my day off looking for the answer . . . . . and doing a better job of censoring what goes in my waiting rooms!


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DST

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I don't have anything nice to say about Daylight Savings Time, but here is a positive look at "Fall Back."

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Sarah 1993


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October Glory

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A word from your editor

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Obviously, as editor of this blog --- which I maintain purely for the pleasure of my readership (with only a pinch of parental indulgence) --- I am not immune from harsh public criticism.

If you must know, my recent silence is because I am pouting about the impending doom of Daylight Savings Time . . . plus there a thousand other things still on my To-Do List!!!

Magnificent

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Buying gifts for parents is kind of like buying clothes for a teenager. I think they are tied for #1 on the List of Nearly Impossible Things To Do.

Time together, however, is a priceless gift that is easy to lose in today's hectic race from one "obligation" to another.

Hence, it was our pleasure (all 8 of us) to host a Ten Grand weekend for Mom and Dad on Chicagos's Magnificent Mile.

We don't really have any photographic memories of the weekend (No photos allowed at The Blue Man Group and too cold and windy to stop, much less take my hands out of my pockets for a photo on the Mag Mile), but Dad captured this from his hotel room overlooking Lake Michigan.

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. . . and this should be the next ad for Westin's Heavenly Beds.

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On the air

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This week was Catholic Schools week at Sacred Heart. It's a week full of special activites that highlight and promote the virtues of Catholic education. It's also a week of fun stuff for the students and teachers to help fight the winter blues.

Each student was asked to write something about Sacred Heart that is special or important. Two students from each class were then chosen, based on what they had written, to go down to one of our local radio stations, (WRSW, 107.3) and record their "blurb" that was then broadcast all week long to advertise for Catholic schools and Sacred Heart.

In case you weren't tuned in, this is what Rachel had to say: " At Sacred Heart, even though I am not Catholic, I feel accepted for who I am."


This is Dr. J on "parent day" with Chef Kensea.

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Confessions

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I have to admit that Steve was right . . . . . again.

Three years ago, he bought me my first digital camera. I was skeptical at first, but it was definitely one of the best gifts that I have ever received.

This year he gave me an iPod for Christmas. I had a Walkman back in high school. In fact, I still have it, but never used it much. I almost always read when I exercise, so at first I was really wondering how much I would use an iPod.

It didn't take me very long to realize just how cool it is to hold my entire collection of CDs in the palm of my hand!!! Now I take my iPod to work every day where I plug it into my JBL desktop speaker and shuffle music all day long depending on my mood.

Now it's time to start downloading photo albums onto my iPod . . . .

Thanks, Honey. I'm on the computer (again) if you need me.

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Life 101

Live like you are dying . . .

Live until you die.

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Lucky 13

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I remember when I was 13. I still have the scar on my shin to show it. I tripped over a tent stake when the circus came to town. I remember my dad trying to convince me to stick my hand inside the circus elephant's mouth. (Why?) I sprained my ankle while vacationing at "Heil's Haven" on Lake Wawasee and had my first ER experience at KCH. Ahhh, what memories.

Now my life IS a circus, the stakes are higher and I'm still wondering why I put my hands in........... BUT I LIVE where I vacation which is just a stone's throw away from my beloved childhood memories at Heil's Haven so I can work at KCH!!! (I really had no idea where I was going when I started to write this but it's amazing where I ended up!) I never would have dreamed that my 13th year would have such an impact on my life.

I never really thought that I would be the mother of a teenager either. I know it's the obvious result after the celebration of 13 birthdays, but it's like thinking of yourself as old --- it's just not something you can fathom!

Well, the inevitable did happen: I did become the mother of a teenager --- and I enjoyed every moment of it.


Friday I drove the girls in to school. I dropped Rachel off first as usual. As I waved good-bye to Rachel, I called Sarah's friend Kaila on my cell phone. Sarah gave me the "What are you doing, Mom?" look.

"Kaila, this is Sarah's mom. Could you do me a favor and pick up Sarah's homework today?"

("Mom! What are you doing? Are we going somewhere? Are we going shopping? Are we going to Fort Wayne?")

"Is Sarah sick today?"

"No Kaila, Sarah is not sick. She and I are going to Chicago for Sarah's birthday."

("REALLY?!?!?! Oh my gosh!!! Are we really going to Chicago? Are you serious? That is SOOOO COOL! I'm going shopping in Chicago! I'm skipping school!!! I can't believe it!!!")

(Tears well up in both our eyes......)

So Sarah and I headed to the Windy City.

We went to Schaumburg first. We covered every inch of the Woodfield Mall and then a bunch of stores on the strip. (Good thing Dad wasn't with us because we didn't even have time to think about going into Dick's Sporting Goods.)

We headed back into downtown Chicago around dinnertime. Sarah got to practice some map reading and navigation skills. She turned out to be a great co-pilot.

By the time we got checked into our hotel, it was after 8 pm. (Another good thing Dad wasn't with us because otherwise we would have had to go to bed - and without dinner.) Instead, we headed out onto the town and found an Italian bistro for a light late-night dinner followed by a stroll down the Magnificent Mile. By the time we headed back into our hotel room, Sarah was begging for a piggyback ride and flip-flopped into bed. She was so tired that she fell asleep watching her favorite TV show.

Did you notice anything peculiar? Strange? Totally out of character?

Not only did Sarah shop 'til she dropped, (a RARE occurrence) but we were so busy shopping on Friday that I did not even take one photo!


The next morning, Sarah was awake well before noon! She fueled up with room service and then we headed out for another day of power shopping.


Another inevitable moment. (She knew I had to get her picture eventually.)

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Gotta rest. Shopping is hard work.

(We stopped at The American Girl - but only to get something for Rachel.)

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Loaded . . . . with smiles.

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Flip-flopped and shopped out.

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It was a quiet but dangerous drive home. Sarah got whiplash doing head-bobs!


When we got home Saturday evening, Steve and Rachel were patiently waiting for us. They, too, had been shopping and had almost everything ready for the family party on Sunday! Rachel (with only a little help from Daddy) prepared Sarah's traditional birthday dinner of poppyseed chicken.


Here is the Birthday Girl patiently waiting for the party to begin --- and modeling one of her new outfits from our shopping spree.

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The traditional "bread photo." (I tried just baking plain loaves of bread once. It only works when they're 11. Otherwise, my girls insist that I make numbers with the bread. Fortunately, they're happy with the big numbers and I don't have to make breadstick numbers anytmore.)

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Sarah's buddy Jeff. Wherever Sarah is, Jeff is. Superglue can't begin to compete with this bond. (Jeff will come in real handy once Sarah starts to date.)

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Cousins

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Sarah received a special gold coin necklace from Gramma Jane. It is a 3-dollar gold piece from 1855 that belonged to Great Gramma Stands. Sarah begged to wear it to school the next day. I think my little girl is turning into a wonderful young lady. So far, I like having a teenager.


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Postscript
After Sarah's traditonal birthday feast of poppyseed chicken, noodles, peas, "number bread" and salad with poppyseed dressing, I was called out to deliver a baby. When I returned home about midnight, the party was over and the house was all clean again. I guess I need to leave more often --- and praise my wonderful hubby more often too!


I don't think this is what the saying means!!!

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I guess my fetish for red bikes dates back a few years!!!

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An apple a day . . .

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. . . and other helpful hints from Dr J!


INFORMATION TO HELP YOU CHOOSE YOUR NEXT HEALTH PLAN


Q. What does HMO stand for?
A. This is actually a variation of the phrase, "HEY MOE." Its roots go back to a concept pioneered by Moe of The Three Stooges, who discovered that a patient could be made to forget about the pain in his foot if he was poked hard enough in the eyes.

Q. I just joined an HMO. How difficult will it be to choose the doctor I want?
A. Just slightly more difficult than choosing your parents. Your insurer will provide you with a book listing all the doctors in the plan. These doctors basically fall into two categories: those who are no longer accepting new patients and those who will see you but are no longer participating in the plan. But don't worry --- the remaining doctor who is still in the plan and accepting new patients has an office only a half-day's drive away. Rest assured that he has a medical school diploma (from one of many possible Third World Countries) and is learning English as a second language.

Q. Do all diagnostic procedures require pre-certification?
A. No. Only those you need.

Q. Can I get coverage for my preexisting conditions?
A. Certainly, as long as they don't require any treatment.

Q. What happens if I want to try alternative forms of medicine?
A. You'll need to find alternative forms of payment.

Q. My pharmacy plan only covers generic drugs, but I need the name brand. I tried the generic medication, but it gave me a stomachache. What should I do?
A. Poke yourself in the eye.

Q. What if I'm away from home and I get sick?
A. You really shouldn't do that.

Q. I think I need to see a specialist, but my doctor insists he can handle my problem. Can a general practitioner really perform a heart transplant right in his office?
A. Hard to say --- but, since all you're risking is the $30 co-pay, there's no harm in giving him a shot at it.

Q. Will health care be different in the next century?
A. No. But if you call right now, you might get an appointment by then.

Making and breaking traditions

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On Christmas Day, we had lunch at my grandparents' "new home" in Sycamore Grove. (In the past it was always at our house - or at least since Sarah can remember.)

Grampa Paul is recuperating from a hip fracture and Gramma Mary (having already gone through two hip fractures, a stroke, a heart attack and a multitude of other ailments) is finally just wearing out after 80-plus years. (Sycamore Grove is one wing of a very posh, first class nursing home at Peabody Retirement Community in North Manchester.)

It was a simple but pleasant, stress-free dinner. Admittedly, it was kind of nice to be waited upon in our quiet, comfy and homey semi-private dining room --- and not have to clean up any mess afterwards.

Since Gramma and Grampa have moved out of their house of over thirty years, another tradition may have started today but another probably ended.

One of my fondest memories as a young girl was going to Gramma Mary's. We would bake bread and cookies and make lots of messes --- which Gramma never minded because her house was always a mess anyway! In between batches of bread or cookies, I also loved to explore her closets . . . No one has ever seen such magnificent closets, or so many closets! As a little girl, it was like discovering the National Treasure.

At Christmas, Gramma eventually began to give "closet gifts" along with other presents. When she first started this tradition, we were afraid of getting some ugly or useless "white elephant" gift. Instead, "closet gifts" were usually the most precious and favored gifts --- and remain my favorites today.

This Christmas, Sarah and Rachel probably received the last closet gifts from Gramma Mary. She gave each of them a ring that she had once worn. They were genuinely surprised and delighted.

Shortly after dinner, we were also pleasantly surprised by a visit from Deaconess Sabine, her husband Kerby and daughter Hannah as they spread their traditional Christmas cheer.


You can make or break, but never erase, tradition.


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I hate it when Steve cleans

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Live strange, Live strong

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The end of summer seems to bring out strange behavior in our children.

Last year, for example, Rachel decided to learn how to waterski on the last day of summer vacation. She mastered it in only a few attempts . . . and loved it like we knew she would.

This summer also ended with some strange behavior --- just look at the next photo of Rachel with her cousins Samantha and Jeff. I'm curious to know how others would caption this photo, but this is what it "said" this morning at 7:30 am.

Rachel: "I'm in the zone. You can talk to me, but I can't hear you."

Sam: "Don't take my picture! I don't want to smile and YOU can't make me!"

Jeff: "Can I go back to bed?!?"


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Below is an even stranger photo: It's Samantha skiing for the first time!!! (Pretty amazing given the strong attitude above.)

I'm the boat driver who successfully pulled her up on her first try and captured this photo at the same time. (Pat, pat, pat)

So what's so strange, besides me?

Look carefully at the rare photo below which depicts Sarah awake, alert and smiling prior to noon on a weekend!!!

Stranger yet, she bragged to her cousin Sam about how fun skiing was and then Sarah actually skied for the first time this summer! (I'm sure she was just trying to provide Sam with some positive coaxing . . . or could it have been the "pier" pressure?)


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So not to be outdone, Rachel showed her cousins how to wakeboard . . . in style!

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This is the girl that just broke her arm 2 weeks ago and was in the hospital with a possible ruptured appendix 3 days ago.

As the yellow Lance Armstrong bracelet proclaims: LIVE STRONG!!!


Fourth of July

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In this family, it is NOT baseball and apple pie that come to mind when talking about all-American traditions. Instead, it's the flotilla and fireworks on the lake.

Lake Tippecanoe still has the traditional daytime flotilla. (We entered a float one year and almost sank the boat and our family ties, hence we have not been brave enough to enter again.) Lake Wawasee has started a great new tradition of having a lighted flotilla at night.

If you have never seen fireworks from the water, you should. (Unfortunately, I missed the photo op last night because the downpour of rain didn't stop until minutes before the fireworks began, so I ran out without a camera.) Nevertheless, the fireworks were spectacular, especially set to the background of synchronized patriotic music from a local radio station.

Another all-American tradition in this family is boat church on Fourth of July weekend. Auntie Carol comes all the way from Minnesota just to hear Rick Whitaker sing "Proud to be an American" from a pontoon on Lake Tippecanoe. He's been singing every year since at least 1993 - and Auntie Carol has been there for almost every performance.


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Here's one of my favorite photos - and quotes - from last year.


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. . . in fact, I look up to her by more than 2 inches now.

Sarah turns 12 tomorrow, on May 1st.

A dozen reasons to celebrate, a dozen reasons to meditate.
Watching her grow into a young woman is as amazing as giving birth.
(Sometimes it's that painful too!!!)

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This is the REAL reason you need to carry a handgun.

Spring colours

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Redbud season is one of my favorites and it really makes our little part of the world beautiful.
It also means that spring is really here . . . now if the wind would just die so that I can ski!!!


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S'aint no Coincidence

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Bittersweet grace

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"You, Lord, give perfect peace to those who keep their purpose firm and put their trust in in you." Isaiah 26:3


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I was cycling through the woods the day after she died. The contrast of winter's dead leaves against the pure white wildflowers of spring reminds me that through death there is life . . .

Easter Blessings

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Behold, children are a gift of the Lord.
Psalm 127:3


Spring Rain

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You might think that Spring has arrived with temperatures in the 60's. Of couse any minute now and we could get snow. After a hard rain the steam rose off the water. We would like to put the boats in but we are at the mercy of the storage barn. We thought last in, first out, would get us our boat in March. Guess we will just look at the pier during spring break.

Blog

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I may have agreed to using Blogs on this website a little too soon. I didn't realize the implications of having other people post remarks. Now that I have seen how you all treat us sun deprived hoosiers I may have to search out ways to retaliate on your sites.

St. Patrick's Day

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Here it is mid-March, cloudy and snowing! As ususal we wear our green and expect a pot of gold to appear at the end of our rainbow. No pot of gold today but I would settle for a touch of spring. If it weren't so cold (29 degrees) the water looks great to go footin. I am sure Erin could be talked into that almost anytime from here on out. We can only hope to see the sun soon.

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